June 12th, 2009Pretentious Girls…
Tik… tak. tik… tak. tik… tak. The ticking sound of my clock while I study my Algorithm & Data Structures at 2am in the morning.
Suddenly, a concern friend message me in msn asking if I’m ok. She must be curious about the angry statuses I’ve had in the pass couple of days on Facebook and MSN.
To all who wondered, what I’m about to write is what happen in the past couple of days. I’m “kinda” in an argument with a girl I know, and (unfortunately) someone I stay with before.
Note: Pardon me for the language I’m about to use, as it ain’t pretty.
She has always been a bitch since college days. There are cases where she back stabbed a lecturer which resulted in force resignation of that lecturer the worst thing is, she acts innocent! she rather hang out with guys rather than girls, flirty, etc.
It all started when I came across her blog where she post about things she bought from shopping spree. She wrote in her post:
“I realized I’ve been very depressed lately, and I just couldn’t hold back my tears anymore. Silently, I cried… the more I think, the more tears running down my cheeks. Thanks my boi for being there when I needed a shoulder to cry on. To cheer this little princess up, he decided to take her out for a little shopping, since everywhere is having mid-season sales now. Myer is the one which has the biggest stocktake sale going on in Australia. So, here is a list of items I’ve got for myself:”
Reading this, with good intentions this is exactly what I wrote:
” Hey Chris, how r u doing? In ur post u wrote, u mentioned that u were feeling depressed. How come? Maybe u could try to talk to girlfriends or close friends to cheer urself up. It’s way better than to go on shopping sprees whenever u feel down. In some cases, buying something u don’t really need.
Btw, how’s ur friends at bamboo? Seldom see u post any outings or gathering which u used to. Are u still working there? (One of the reason I ask this is because her birthday, her bf, and alex’s b’day falls on the same month n only the 3 of them celebrate all 3 b’days. She usually would invite friends over on her b’days. So i was asking out of concern) Anyway, take care of urself and cheer up. *huggies* “
SHE FREAKIN’ HELL DELETED THAT COMMENT MAN!!!
There were 4 comments before my comment but only mine got deleted. Angered, I post another comment: “eh? I leave a comment here before. How come it’s deleted?”
Guess what she answered? — “Hmm? No idea…”
That freakin’ 2 headed snake lor! It’s history repeating itself again.
So, this embarks the start of war between us:
HoneYBuNNY: What’s the purpose of having blog comments when u’ll only delete comments later? Lock ur friggin’ DAMN blog comments !!!
Christina: Funny people being funny as usual.
HoneYBuNNY: Some girls are simply blood sucking mosquitoes; yet they protect their dignity by claiming they EARN it! Muahaha. What a joke!
Christina: I don’t know when did I step on a dog’s tail and it keeps barking at me ~.~ how pathetic
HoneYBuNNY: With a hypocrite character, you wouldn’t know when u offend people. Btw, I think barking is not as bad as BLOOD SUCKING!
HoneYBuNNY: Hypocrites will never know the meaning of TRUE FRIENDSHIP…
Christina: Fake people will always remain fake. May God Bless u. (Using God’s name in vain.)
Christina: Life is not about comparing yourself or b*tching about people… “Grow up, get a life!”
Christina: just that someone started to bug my life n telling me what i should do n what i should not do… sigh
Christina: It creeps me out when ppl start “caring” so much about my life, every single dime I spent… *shivers* (Pretending again. shivering, konon)
Stacy Koay doesn’t think there’s anything wrong with spending UR OWN money. N don’t try 2 act innocent when u’re not. I just really can’t stand pretentious double headed snakes that does something and doesn’t admit.
Finally, I wrote: “I should stop being childish.My last msg 2 pretendious ppl: Maybe I should let bitches remain bitches & sluts remain sluts. Period.”
Note: I might miss out some of her points.
It’s a waste of time to argue with this kinda low class, kampung kinda thinking, immature, hypocrite girl. You should see her when she’s acting gedik.
And please don’t tell me this might all be a miss understanding as comments in her blog are auto-approved. And even if my comment so happen accidentally deleted, how come other comments before and after my comments exist?? Who are u trying to kid?
Another evidence is that: A friend of mine happen to see my comment before she deleted it, surprised to see me unexpectedly left comment in her blog.
The only thing in the near future I could think of is, keep a distance from this kinda person as you will never know when she’ll back stab you and pretend as if nothing has ever happen.
Note: People who’s about to leave comments, my comments are moderated and not auto-approved. But I wouldn’t be so cheap as to delete comments like some people….
June 12th, 2009 at 10:35 PM
*** Warning: This will be the first and very last comment of mine.
Ask yourself, what was your very first intention each and every time you leave comment in my blog? Everyone who reads the comment know that you sound sarcastic, as there’s a hidden meaning in your “good” words. Don’t even start pretending that you care about me (as u never did) or that was a good intention of yours. I was trying to ignore all your childish MSN signatures at first but then I couldn’t help but blocked and deleted your MSN contact right after I saw this line:
“HoneYBuNNY: Some girls are simply blood sucking mosquitoes; yet they protect their dignity by claiming they EARN it! Muahaha. What a joke! ”
Those others you got here must be gathered by Kah Peng, since he’s following me on twitter. Who cares?
So what is wrong with you actually? You’ve got nothing better to do other than flaming or b*tching about my life? I didn’t know that a Christian like you could be so harsh and so mean to others. Even if I really deleted your comment in my blog, I don’t see there’s anything wrong with it since it’s my blog. I delete whatever irritate my eyes, just love it or hate it. Everyone does that I believe. THE ONLY REASON THAT U GET SO UPSET ABOUT ME DELETING YOUR COMMENT IS YOU DIDN’T COME FOR GOOD INTENSION.
And now you brought up those history during college time, who was the one being a b*tch? Did I force a lecturer to resign back then? I was wondering who the hell set me up for things which I didn’t do at all. I’M NOT IN AN ARGUMENT OR FIGHTING WITH U as there’s nothing to fight about. Did I offended you by hanging out with guys? I found that I’d rather hang out with guys than mixing with dangerous people like you, smiling and pretending to be nice in front of others.
Now, you’re defaming and insulting me in your blog, did anyone ever tell you that YOU’RE THE MOST PRETENDIOUS PERSON??? I worked and earned money with my own hands, you’ve got problems with that? Do I need to show u my account transaction? No! I don’t need to prove anything to u. Who are you to question every single dime I spend? I’m not STEALING the money from you or your BF. Even if my BF did buy me things that I want, is there anything to do with you? No! Why seeking troubles / problems with me when there are many others who spend money like water? Before you start “judging” others, please take a mirror and have a good look at your ugly self first. MY INTENTION IS NOT TO INSULT OR MAKE UP FAKE STORIES HERE!
When you needed study notes from me, did I ever say no? When u asked me about coming and studying to Australia, did I ever comfort you that everything will be fine once you get here? Ask yourself… I was being good to you even I know who you really are, but at least I never pretend to be your good friend. I NEVER DO ANYTHING TO HARM U! You came bugging us telling us that you need to check if your assignment was correct but the truth was u didn’t even do the assignment at all, still lying like you’re so honest!
Before you start insulting me again, you’re nobody to judge me cause you’re even a worse person, make use of your own BF to do all those assignments for you ever since college time cause he got feelings for u? I am nothing compare to you as I’m not a good liar like you. DID INSULTING ME MAKE U FEEL ANY BETTER AT ALL??? If yes, you can go on with whatever u like cause I rather spend time doing my projects than listening to you. At this stage, I can still tolerate all the things you said and done to me, still being rational enough to write.
Before you come to Australia, u told me that u gonna get married with your ex BF and such. So what happen to your ex BF now? Oh yeah, you told others that he abused you, but still he bought u so many expensive stuff like laptop, camera, etc? Still u lived together with him for so many years? Poor u! And when you come to breaking up with others, you told people that it was God’s will, God ask you to do this and do that. U don’t even deserve to be a Christian, don’t use God as an excuse.
My last words, everyone has their own life to live, don’t ever start comparing mine to yours. If my blog contents irritate u, don’t even bother to read it! That’s what I wanted to say…
June 13th, 2009 at 12:32 AM
There is nothing I can do, if u feel that my comments have hidden meanings or sarcasm.
The thing that offended me was when I asked u, did u delete my comment, u stated: No, idea. Thus, come forth the title: Pretentious girls.
I understand that owners of blogs have the freedom to delete/approve comments. One of the reason why I approve ur long comment here because if I delete your comment, I not much different than you. There’s a million things you did offend me, which I didn’t write in that post, because it’s out of the point. I know to separate one issue from another, unlike you. But truthfully, I lazy to type so long la! Must study. Hahaha.
There is alot of things in your comment which u really have the wrong idea about, but I wouldn’t wanna write another long essay. Simple:- Don’t write or assume if you don’t know the whole picture.
FYI, I don’t have to tell people about my personal life, but jst to clear the air a little:-
June 13th, 2009 at 4:28 AM
ROFL !! Stacy, wondering why do you still consider her as a friend when she always think you’re faking to ask her how’s her life going so far? Throw away laa this kind of friend !! *But dont know whether sampah also can tahan her or not.. LOL! * One day when her bf finally is not blind enough to see who she really is then trust me he’ll definately dump her..Bitches will always stay a BITCH ! And I mean permanently.. As what christina said..She had worked with her own hands, but spends with her bf’s money..You shouldn’t had named your blog pretentious girl..You should name it Money/Gold-sucking Girl.. Do not bother this kinda person as it would just such a waste of t ime ! A person who can cause a lecturer to resign? WTF..We’re talking bout a person’s job here..Dun worry..Your own karma is gonna find you soon..If you were to set up a blog, why even bother to set up one when u deletes reader’s comments that they send to you? Nobody will ever read your blog..*No wonder I haven’t seen your blog till now and I could guess what kinda gold digger are you* LOL !
P/S Christina : GAWD !! Pls change ur sense of fashion..After I’ve seen your blog..Really does make me wana puke out all the dinner I just had..Seriously..And stop acting cute with the ” coconut tree hairstyle “..How old are you already? OMFG..Pls dont be so childish..Including your attitude..It sucks PERMANENTLY ! Anyway..You’re a fan of Guess? Even you were to get LV stuffs, people would think that you bought it from a night market or so with a bargain price ! People who’re at your age are matured and elegant..Yet you……..*speechless* Deleting ppl’s comment on your blog is already an act to show that you’re just being childish..Delete your blog laa..The moment I saw your blog just now..All I can say is – So FAKE ! You might as well delete your blog..*No wonder I’ve never known nor see your blog till today as it is so not popular and fake* Never gonna step in there anymore..GAWD !! It SUCKS BAD TIME !!
P/S Stacy : Delete every contacts that you could’ve possibly have with this girl..How could you ever stay with her and attending same class with her for so long? You can tahan for so long..Credits to you..Seriously, This kind of girl is not worth to be your friend..Delete liao laa..No wonder she doesn’t have any girl friend..Only sticks with her bf as he’s the only source to her expensive “stuffs”..She would only take advantage when she needs you..This girl is definately, certainly…. a BITCH !
Out and away~
June 13th, 2009 at 10:49 PM
****I said I won’t reply anymore but still I can’t help it when I read your reply.
“I know to separate one issue from another, unlike you.” Oh really?, from a very simple deleting your comment, you started to type all those “good words” of yours on your MSN, keep going on and on… and there were several others that you typed but you didn’t post them in your blog? Those status I wrote on my twitter was not meant for you to see! From changing your MSN status, you then started a post to defame and insult me, even though I had already deleted you from my MSN contact list 2 days ago. I can’t see that you’re good at separating one issue from another. Read your own post and tell me that you really did the right thing, by involving several other things that you “assume” were right.
“There’s a million things you did offend me” I feel the same too, you did many things which offended me too! But I wasn’t being calculative at all, whenever you asked for help, we were always there to help you. Dare you say no, except the only one time when you asked me to send my assignment answer to you. I wasn’t being selfish…
“There is alot of things in your comment which u really have the wrong idea about” There you go, you start telling me all these, so what you really know about my life? Do you stay with me, sleep with me, study with me, work with me, or follow me whever I go? No! So I’d like to tell you the same thing too, “Don’t write or assume if you don’t know the whole picture.” Now, you know the feelings when someone said something opposite about u.
“I don’t have to tell people about my personal life” This is what I wanted to tell u too, I don’t have to explain to whole wide world that what I’m doing is right or wrong. So please you tell me that you have evidence when you say I don’t earn my own money!
“Telling me what I should n shouldn’t do as a Christian, you would not understand. Leave God out of this” Yes, I’m not a Christian. Therefore, I’m not telling you that what you should or shouldn’t do. I was telling you as a human who has feelings. It wasn’t me who involved God in such issue, it was you who said all these things to others. I’m 100% confirm what I’m saying here is true unless your loved one lied about it when he was talking to me. Talk to him instead!
Honestly, admitting that I deleted your comment is just a simple and easy thing. Just tell me what’s your reaction if I tell you “Yes, I deleted your comment”. Don’t say that you’ll reply very calmly “Oh, ok.” What I did, I will admit but those I never did, don’t simply go telling others.
“Are you sure it’s not insulting nor fake? Do u know the whole picture before concluding?” Yes, I’m very sure! I calm myself down after I read your post, I think twice before I write every single word I wrote. All these vicious words came from your mouth…
June 14th, 2009 at 1:14 AM
HEY HEY HEY…
Okay, this is getting way out of hand.
It all started when I was furious about you deleting my comment and go on pretending like you have no idea what happened. So tell me exactly, in my comment that you deleted, what was my hidden agenda? What do u think, in midst of sarcasm, did I actually meant? Do you think… maybe… you were being sensitive?
Ok fine, you said every comment I left on your blog, did you mean the one working on tomato farm? Because, i seldom leave comment on your blog. So i assume u were referring to that. That was because your comments were contradicting with what you were writing. Can’t you see that? I was merely pointing it out to you. Remember the last comment where I quote your comment, the two vs. each other? That was when you block comments.
And no, if you simply answered me honestly, that you deleted the comment, i wouldn’t just reply “oh, okay”. Don’t you think I deserve an explanation? Putting yourself in my shoes, wouldn’t you wanna know what’s going on, instead was disappointed with hypocrite? This was the reason I was pissed. Not for reasons like :
Yea, there were a few lines that I’ve missed out. As I’ve mentioned in my post. As I wasn’t able to grasp all. And no, it was posted all over ur facebook, which I came to see. And that lead me to twitter.
So yea, my post was about you PRETENDING. Thus, 2 headed snake. About the lecturer’s case during college days, it was merely another example where you pretended as if nothing happen. (This I know, because it came from the lecturer herself that you were the source.So i wrote it on my post:- See? I only wrote things that I know)
And yeah, there are many others who spend money like water. But at least, they acknowledge that, and never once said this is expensive or this is wasting money. But like I’ve said, I don’t care about your spending patterns, it just that you took blood sucking as into sucking from Jeff’s money but I meant a whole new meaning.
I admit I was furious and burning with anger when I wrote Blood Sucking. Blood sucking i meant here is living and depending on your boyfriend while flirting with other guys (in Aus) at the same time. But do you see me writing it in my post? No! it was merely rumors I heard, and like I’ve said before, I don’t know the whole picture, so I didn’t made any conclusion and wrote anything in my post. Even though I personally think rumors start somewhere, sometime. If you have done nothing wrong, why would people put you in that spot. Hence, bitches remained bitches, sluts remained sluts. PERIOD. I didn’t elaborate on that but now when u confront me. No choice. I repeat: IT WAS JST A RUMOR I HEARD. Hence, I did not elaborate.
I didn’t quite understand this:
So, what does being a Christian has anything to do with anything? I didn’t even freaking touch anything about religion. So, if you’re a Buddhist, you could do things Christians couldn’t? Come ‘on… Christians are not God, we’re humans too.
FYI, I didn’t say it was God’s will that I broke up. It was His PLAN to bring me to Aus, so that I could break free from such a man. But I don’t think you would understand any of it.
I really can’t understand why you were writing all irrelevant things, (which clearly you don’t understand anything of the situations you wrote about me, e.g: my ex, my assignments, my religion, me being ugly, etc. etc.) And just for your record, no, KP only started helping me with assignments when we were into a relationship together. I was hardly in class during college days, and so I don’t know him all that well. And, I had a boyfriend back then, remember?
Oh, about calling you a slut, is when pretending to be sweet and innocent was when well, you know how you got back with Jeff. I think it will be inappropriate to blur out everything which I didn’t see myself. i.e: like what you did in your 1st comment. So, I know, you know, can already la. And just maybe, you deserve some privacy on that department.
So, about your oh so complicated love life, one night stands, spending whose money and whose. Like I’ve mentioned earlier, blood sucking didn’t mean you spending Jeff’s money, but while depending on him, there’s rumors la. I personally don’t care if you spend all of Jeff’s money as long as he don’t mind. Heck! I don’t even care if u stripe even dime and penny from him. He’s too grown up to decide that for himself. I didn’t wanna write or elaborate further on the bitch and slut, but at this point, we’re both acting childish and impulsive. Don’t cha think? Well, at least, I admit I am la. What ever it is, I couldn’t care less la. All those problems are yours. Not mine. So, like what I’ve said, I didn’t wanna mentioned it any more. But since you can’t put it to rest, I’ve elaborated what those meanings are to you. Or should I say “vicious words” Is it still vicious when everyone’s saying the exactly same thing? Buy hey! I was only thinking, didn’t mean to write it out in the first place. Read my post, and u will I understand that what I wrote was just an EXAMPLE of pretending. Nothing about your personal life.
So yeah, you were helpful when I ask you about details on going to aus, but that was what you ever did. DETAILS. I did settle everything (the process) on my own…ok? Exceptional favors from Jeff when he borrowed me cash when I didn’t change enough currency when first arrived at aus. Along with your notes. So, yeah, i do remember favors. But that wasn’t the point anyway. It still boils down to deleting my comment and yet, pretended.
Oh! Btw, deleting me from your list or not, doesn’t bother me. Our boyfriends are friends and we’re all classmates. Like it or not, we’re bound to bump into each other one day. Either intentionally, or not. So yea, it doesn’t make any difference. So, if what you wrote on your twitter wasn’t for me to see, means you’re doing backstabbing behind my back? In a way la…
About your assignment answers, fine if you wouldn’t wanna show me. You’ve got pretty high marks and I just wanted to see what you did. That’s all. I didn’t say you were selfish, I didn’t say you were stingy. I didn’t say or do anything or talk behind your back or even keep in heart for that matter. Only remembered when you brought it up. Didn’t understand why u keep pressing on that point when back then, the lecturer had already MARKED and GIVEN BACK the everyone’s assignment answers when I asked you for it.
So, i think you shouldn’t bother to put those *** note signs before you start commenting. Because i know, you would reply to my comment, and hey! there’s nothing wrong with that! That’s what we girls do! Hahahaha.
June 14th, 2009 at 1:31 AM
Thanks, amy. For standing on my side. *huggies*